It is the picture of suburban Australia.
The lawnmower, freshly cut grass, brick house in the background.
But Nathan Clissold wasn’t supposed to be mowing the lawn this week. In fact, he wasn’t even supposed to be at home.
He was supposed to be getting married, in Wollongong.
“I remember watching the news two weeks ago and seeing those updates come in,” he told the ABC. “I looked at my partner Alice and said: ‘I don’t think we’re going to able to do this’.”
It soon became much clearer. After months of planning they were forced to cancel their original plans.
Instead, his home — which he was sprucing up this week — is set to be the wedding venue.
And because of social-distancing measures, the wedding will look very, very different.
“It’ll be me and Alice, our two mothers and the celebrant,” he said.
“It is what it is. But it was bloody hard telling both our dads they couldn’t come to our wedding.”
Like millions of Australians, Nathan’s life has been turned upside down.
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ABC photographer Brendan Esposito drove around a section of Sydney’s suburbia to see how some Australians are adapting to this new way of life.
And it seems some are taking the pandemic more seriously than others.
In Mount Druitt in Sydney’s west, a group of three young men — two wearing makeshift facemasks — questioned whether coronavirus was “real” and said they wouldn’t be doing social distancing.
The shops were shuttered up.
Only a few people were around
But chores, like the washing, still needed to be done.
At his home garage barbershop in a nearby suburb, 18-year-old Hadi Ghadban was hanging out with his brothers, smoking shisha.
“It’s a tough time right now,” he said.
“I have to go to work [as a barber] at the Parramatta Westfield. It’s been cut back from five days to two.
“But I’m scared about it — I’m scared I’m going to bring the virus back home and give it to my mum and dad, or niece.”
Down the road, Farah Ballah was sitting on his balcony, checking his phone.
He’s an on-call handyman. But his phone hasn’t rung for a long time.
“I came back after visiting family in Sudan on March 11,” he said. “People are scared. They don’t want anyone in their homes.
“I have two children. I don’t know what’s going to happen.”
Back to basics
For Margaret Mossakowska, the scenario of social distancing is eerily familiar.
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Originally from Poland, the former statistician said in the early 1980s her country of birth banned large social gatherings during a period of martial law.
“But the communists did that,” she said. “This is different.”
For her, the little things are the hardest.
“It’s the silence,” she said. “It’s so quiet here at the moment. I had a talk with my neighbour from across the street and my whole suburb could hear me.
“And touch, I just want to touch and to hug people.”
But like many reaching out across the digital world, Margaret is finding new ways for human connection.
Margaret, now a sustainability and permaculture expert, is going online to teach people in the suburbs how to grow their own produce.
“I hope people will go back to basics, and see how simple the world can be,” she said.
This week she gave an online class about keeping chickens in suburban backyards.
Margaret was joined on the stream by Bridget Kennedy.
The two became friends online after an edible garden tour they were working on was cancelled because of COVID-19, and the project went digital instead.
“We’ve built a whole new community online,” she said.
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Bridget runs a contemporary jewellery business in North Sydney which had to shut because of the coronavirus threat.
She said her anxieties — both financial and personal — were “skyrocketing” when she closed the doors.
But she said she had since found solace in her suburban garden.
“These are crazy times,” she said. “But I’ve been spending a lot of time in our garden — we’ve been eating the food from it.
“I’ve come to terms with it now. The universe has said you have to sit back for a while, so we’re doing that.”
Taking it day by day
For Nathan, the weirdest thing during this period — apart from having his wedding being moved to his backyard — is not being able to shake hands.
“It’s just what we do isn’t it?” he said.
He and his fiancee are making new plans for a big party to celebrate their wedding when the travel restrictions are over.
They’ll also be booking a new honeymoon due to their planned celebration in Fiji being cancelled.
Having had COVID-19 derail the biggest day of his life, Nathan had some sage advice.
“We’ve just got to take it day-by-day,” he said. “Just try to live our lives and be there for each other.”